tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post113547983677533872..comments2023-11-05T04:23:59.769-05:00Comments on Discombobulatingrant: Letter HomeGranthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08040058320473775641noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1135737897659715912005-12-27T21:44:00.000-05:002005-12-27T21:44:00.000-05:00I obvioulsy don't know your details.....sounds ext...I obvioulsy don't know your details.....sounds extreme, but my mom has this undercurrent thing going all the time that I owe her the allegiance of being what it is she wants me to be....so she can brag about mme..."look what a great mom I was.....as if her having sex with my father and bringing me here left me with a responsibility to her.....Good Luck Dude.....I kissed mine of this Christmas too! Just wann be me....It's hard.Sevenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17643893888470966419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1135615133464751122005-12-26T11:38:00.000-05:002005-12-26T11:38:00.000-05:00I hope for you that will be the end of it, but I w...I hope for you that will be the end of it, but I would have a plan incase she does come knocking on the door. She sounds like she might. <BR/><BR/>Not sure why people think that just because you are born into a family that means you have to stay with them your entire life. You don’t get to choose so why should some random placement be your fate. Sure that is simplistic and ignoring the DNA issue but if anyone else in your life acted that way, you would cut them out too so why should a relative be any different. Being a relative doesn’t change the fact you’re an ass hole.Joshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14526768359403038489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1135559497914696562005-12-25T20:11:00.000-05:002005-12-25T20:11:00.000-05:00I know a few people that had to write their family...I know a few people that had to write their family out of thier lives. My father had to do it with his family. His father was a horribly rotten parent and so was his mom. Dad is rather dysfunctional as a parent too but nowhere near his parents. When my granddad passed...a few eyes misted but I have to admit it was more for the reasons of "How sad that we have no good memories...they are all tainted".<BR/><BR/>I don't look down on you Grant, you have to take care of yourself.Blondie...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00636237187491905263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1135488146684378572005-12-25T00:22:00.000-05:002005-12-25T00:22:00.000-05:00Hope this works out for you. I tend to be rather c...Hope this works out for you. I tend to be rather cynical about dysfunctional families--it's nearly impossible to really leave them behind. <BR/><BR/>Happy Holiday to you!PBShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01672893473413051922noreply@blogger.com