tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post113356515592294229..comments2023-11-05T04:23:59.769-05:00Comments on Discombobulatingrant: Q & AGranthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08040058320473775641noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133912492657722072005-12-06T18:41:00.000-05:002005-12-06T18:41:00.000-05:00Dear Grant. I absolutely loved this post. You are ...Dear Grant. I absolutely loved this post. You are so honest and brave and also so mature. You're very lucky to be able to put things into perspective like this and not let them continue hurting you. <BR/>I'm lucky to know someone like you.AVAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13329120012727871972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133883808981361592005-12-06T10:43:00.000-05:002005-12-06T10:43:00.000-05:00I used to work as a foster care worker years ago, ...I used to work as a foster care worker years ago, and damn I wish most of the kids I had on my load would write off their useless parent(s) who are weighing them down like an anchor around their neck too. People who say stupid crap like, "But she's your mother!" just don't know what the fuck it means to have another species as a parent.Kirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878069196150532952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133795125483339132005-12-05T10:05:00.000-05:002005-12-05T10:05:00.000-05:00Grant: Very powerful post. I feel like such a chil...Grant: Very powerful post. I feel like such a child in comparison with what you have been through.<BR/><BR/>I don't know about loving and liking - what one can or can't do with it. But sometimes people seem to be a poison to one's growth, whether you love them or not. I have a relative that seems to be toxic to me, but she was not my mother.<BR/><BR/>Again, I feel more like a child after reading what others have to endour (I guess they don't have to edour stuff).Leesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09552562808209927463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133794825329282412005-12-05T10:00:00.000-05:002005-12-05T10:00:00.000-05:00You were good to answer all these questions so tru...You were good to answer all these questions so truthfully.My mother died years ago,im sorry she died of course she was my mother.But she was so nasty to me when i was a kid it was hard to forgiveher for all that.Good luck with whatever you do with your mothersands of timehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08859058274686640009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133751644129872042005-12-04T22:00:00.000-05:002005-12-04T22:00:00.000-05:00I really like this post, so brave and so honest!I really like this post, so brave and so honest!PBShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01672893473413051922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133637080677862692005-12-03T14:11:00.000-05:002005-12-03T14:11:00.000-05:00Well, of course not. I can take or leave most peop...Well, of course not. I can take or leave most people, since I am an unfriendly soul. I don't HAVE to like my friends, but I choose to.<BR/><BR/>Let me rephrase: I think "liking" someone should come before love.Valkyriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02482274041091524736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133612466852120362005-12-03T07:21:00.000-05:002005-12-03T07:21:00.000-05:00Call me a flipping idiot but I don't think you hav...Call me a flipping idiot but I don't think you have to either like OR love anybody. Just by using the term "have to" you're already diminishing the whole concept.<BR/><BR/>Nice of you to answer people's questions like this, Grant.Weary Haghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15809105824011470783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133594008210552032005-12-03T02:13:00.000-05:002005-12-03T02:13:00.000-05:00I respectfully disagree. I think you have to like...I respectfully disagree. I think you have to like someone in order to love them. Well, at least the truest kind of love which springs forth from fondness and respect.Valkyriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02482274041091524736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510429.post-1133586979486894752005-12-03T00:16:00.000-05:002005-12-03T00:16:00.000-05:00I think its truly commendable of you to answer the...I think its truly commendable of you to answer the questions Grant. Thank you...<BR/><BR/>I have some rather opinionated replies but not in arguement... except send her a spite Christmas card. ;-)<BR/><BR/>Word Verification: lxspnkd lolBlondie...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00636237187491905263noreply@blogger.com